• THRESHOLD RETREAT You’re at an edge.

    In your relationship, your life, yourself.
    You’ve been carrying it alone.
    For men who are ready to stop managing it and move through it.

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When the old way stops working

You’ve been dealing with it. Thinking it through, trying to handle it better, giving it more time.

It keeps landing in the same place.

For a lot of men it’s the relationship — the same tension, the same shutdown, the same conversations going nowhere. Sometimes it’s broader: a major transition, a decision you haven’t made, something you know needs facing but haven’t faced.

You go back and forth. Nothing moves.

At some point, life stops letting you avoid it.

That’s usually when men come here.

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What actually happens here

This isn’t talking about your life. You bring in what’s actually happening — the relationship tension, the shutdown, the thing you keep circling — and we work with it in real time.

In the exact place it would normally go the same way, we stay with it. Until something starts shifting.

Why it hasn’t changed

You’ve tried. Talked about it, thought it through, tried to respond differently. Sometimes it works briefly. Then pressure comes back — and so does the reaction.

Because once it hits, most men lose access to the part of themselves that can stay present and clear. And from there, the old pattern takes over.

That’s what we’re working with directly.

What begins to change

You catch it earlier. Sometimes right in the middle of it.

You don’t disappear into the same reactions as automatically. Conversations stop ending the same way. Decisions that have been sitting there finally get made. Things that felt stuck start moving.

You leave with something already in motion.

The environment

A high-end home in Winter Park. Small group — 8-10 men. Time outside, movement, space to think clearly.

Enough pressure that things become real. Enough space to stay with them.

I was skeptical going in.

It went way beyond what I expected.

There was something that kept playing out the same way for me.
I couldn’t change it.

After this, I did.

Wade G, Boulder

Who this is for

Most of your life works. But something isn’t — and you know it.

You’re not looking for more insight. You’re ready to meet it directly.

If that’s where you are, you’re probably in the right place.

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What to expect

Real work in real time. Direct feedback — no waiting until later.

A medicine ceremony. Time outside. Movement.

A few days where something that hasn’t moved finally starts moving.

Your Guides

Reuvain

— nearly 30 years working with men in relationship, group, and individual work.

Bryce

https://brycewidom.com/about

Something needs to change. If you’re ready to meet it differently, this is the work.

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Details

This is a focused, small-group retreat.

What:

Threshold Men’s Retreat in Winter Park.

When:

October 16-18, 2026

(Also: enroll now for the Chacala, Mexico retreat from January 21-26. Inquire about the details and pricing)

Who:

This retreat is small and intimate by design. So we can go deep together, man-to-man. Spots limited to 8 men

Investment:

You’ll be working directly, in real time, in a small group setting, including a group medicine session.

This isn’t a large workshop or a passive retreat experience.

Based on sleeping preference.

  • $2,500 private room
  • $2,150 built-in bunks

Click below to apply for the Winter Park retreat and/or the Mexico retreat.

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What men say about the work

Reuvain has a rare ability to see what’s really going on and bring people back to what matters.

In couples, men’s work, and groups, he creates real movement — not just insight.

Jayson Gaddis

Host of The Smart Couple Podcast, Founder – The Relationship School™

Reuvain is one of the most skilled and gifted therapists and coaches I’ve known.

He has a laser-like focus and gets quickly to what’s actually driving the issue.

If you’re serious about doing real work, he’s someone you want in your corner.

Michael Vladeck
Family Coach and Counselor — Conscious Parenting In The Digital Age

Reuvain has supported me for over 20 years — including through some of the hardest periods in my marriage.

He doesn’t avoid what’s difficult. He helps you face it and work through it.

The result is real change in how you show up and how the relationship works.

Dr. Will Van Derveer, MD

Psychiatrist and Co-Founder of Integrative Psychiatric Institute, Boulder, CO

Reuvain brings a rare combination of real support and real challenge.

He sees where you’re holding back and calls you out of it — without losing connection.

That’s what actually creates change.

Dr. Pierre Brunschwig

Physician and Founder — Helios Integrated Medicine, Boulder, CO

Reuvain creates a level of trust that makes it possible to go into what’s actually difficult.

I’ve brought some of the hardest parts of my relationship to him and felt supported staying with it.

That’s what made real change possible.

Marco Chung-Shu La

Clinic Director and Acupuncturist, Mandala Integrative Medicine Clinic

The individual and group work that I have done with Reuvain has been an extraordinary and central part of my personal growth.

Rabbi Marc Soloway

Congregation Bonei Shalom, Boulder, CO

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REFUND POLICY

All sales are final and non-refundable. Failure to use the retreat does not constitute a basis for refusing to pay any of the associated charges.