Handle your relationship and your life more clearly.
Build something that holds strong.
Why men come into this
A lot in your life works. You’ve built things, handled pressure, shown up for people who rely on you.
But somewhere, the old way isn’t cutting it anymore.
Usually it shows up in the relationship first. The same tension. The same shutdown. The same conversations ending the same way, and nothing actually changing.
Sometimes it’s bigger — a divorce, a major transition, a decision you’ve been circling for too long. A growing sense that something in your life isn’t working anymore.
And when pressure hits, you tend to lose sight of what matters. You disconnect from yourself, from the people you love, or from the direction you know you need to take.
At some point, life stops letting you avoid that.
That’s usually when men come into this work.
What’s actually happening
It happens fast.
Something gets said. And before you’ve fully registered what’s happening, you’re already reacting — getting defensive, shutting down, pushing harder, or pulling away.
Most men don’t catch the moment where it turns. Not because they’re weak. Because the reaction happens quickly, until you learn to recognize it sooner.
And if you can’t stay clear enough to respond differently there, life keeps bringing you back to the same place.
How this works
This is a small, in-person coaching group. No posturing, no talking in circles, no hiding behind insight.
You bring in what’s actually happening — the relationship tension, the avoidance, the lack of focus and clarity in your life, the places where you go quiet or go hard under pressure.
And we work there.
Other men will see things you can’t see in yourself. And you’ll see yourself in them — the way they react, the way they disconnect, the way they come back. That’s not incidental. Most men can’t see themselves clearly alone. The group makes it visible.
There’s direct feedback, real accountability, and relationship that actually means something. You clarify values, purpose and vision for your life. You learn tools for handling what gets in the way of creating it.
Over time, you start responding differently — at home, in conflict, in the decisions you make, and in the things you stop avoiding.
What becomes possible
You start catching it sooner. Sometimes right in the middle of it.
You don’t get pulled into the same reactions as automatically. Conversations stop ending the same way. You stay closer to what matters.
Decisions get clearer. Your relationships become more real. And you start feeling more steady in your own life — not because things get easier, but because you stay clearer when they get hard.
Why this is 9 months
The old way is practiced. You’ve been doing it for years.
A different way of meeting life — staying present under pressure, in conflict, in uncertainty — has to become just as practiced. That takes repetition, over time, until presence becomes more natural than reactivity.
That’s why we have 9 months together.
The Tribe helped me go from burnt out and disconnected to present, healthy, and deeply connected — as a husband, father, and business leader.
— Dylan, Longmont / CEO, global technical services business
Who this is for
Most of your life works. But something in your relationship isn’t, or life keeps bringing you back to the same unresolved place.
You’re ready to look honestly at yourself, take responsibility for how you show up, step into leadership, and stay present long enough for something real to change.
This isn’t for men who want quick insight without real change, avoid taking responsibility, or disappear the moment things get uncomfortable.
Format and Logistics
What:
Weekly sessions: In-person 2-hour sessions (Boulder).
Retreats: 3 in-person weekend retreats
Private coaching with Reuvain: Monthly 1:1 coaching sessions.
Coaching partners: Meet weekly with a coaching partner from the group.
Duration:
9 months
When:
Next cohort begins September 26th (opening retreat)
Wednesday evenings 6-8pm
Group size:
8 men max
If this fits
What men say about the work
Reuvain has a rare ability to see what’s really going on and bring people back to what matters.
In couples, men’s work, and groups, he creates real movement — not just insight.
Jayson Gaddis
Host of The Smart Couple Podcast, Founder – The Relationship School™
Reuvain is one of the most skilled and gifted coaches I’ve known.
He has a laser-like focus and gets quickly to what’s actually driving the issue.
If you’re serious about doing real work, he’s someone you want in your corner.
Michael Vladeck
Family Coach and Counselor — Conscious Parenting In The Digital Age
Reuvain has supported me for over 20 years — including through some of the hardest periods in my marriage.
He doesn’t avoid what’s difficult. He skillfully coaches you through it.
The result is real change in how you show up and how the relationship works.
Dr. Will Van Derveer, MD
Psychiatrist and Co-Founder of Integrative Psychiatric Institute, Boulder, CO
Reuvain brings a rare combination of real support and real challenge.
He sees where you’re holding back and calls you out of it — without losing connection.
That’s what actually creates change.
Dr. Pierre Brunschwig
Physician and Founder — Helios Integrated Medicine, Boulder, CO
Reuvain creates a level of trust that makes it possible to get to the other side of what’s actually difficult.
I’ve brought some of the hardest parts of my relationship to him and felt supported moving through to where I wanted to go.
That’s what made real change possible.
Marco Chung-Shu La
Clinic Director and Acupuncturist, Mandala Integrative Medicine Clinic
The individual coaching and group work that I have done with Reuvain has been an extraordinary and central part of my personal growth.
Rabbi Marc Soloway
Congregation Bonei Shalom, Boulder, CO
REFUND POLICY
All sales are final and non-refundable. Failure to use the group does not constitute a basis for refusing to pay any of the associated charges.