Something’s off.
Sometimes it’s the relationship.
The same tension keeps coming back.
Other times it’s broader.
You feel stuck.
Disconnected.
Unclear where you’re headed.
You handle what’s in front of you—
but nothing really moves.
So it lingers.
In the relationship.
In your decisions.
In how you show up day to day.
Most people stay focused on the situation.
The relationship.
The argument.
The decision.
Whatever’s right in front of them.
But the thing creating it is still running.
The reaction.
The tightening.
The way you lose yourself a little once pressure hits.
That’s the part we work with.
Not later.
Not as a recap.
Right there while it’s happening.
So instead of going unconscious and doing what you always do, you start catching it sooner.
You stay in the room.
You stay connected.
You respond with more clarity.
Over time, that changes things.
Not because you figured yourself out intellectually.
Because you stopped leaving the moment the second it got difficult.
You can hide from yourself for a long time one-on-one.
Not as easily in a room full of men.
Other people see things you don’t.
Patterns become obvious faster.
The way you affect people becomes visible in real time.
And once you can actually see it—
you can work with it.
A small, in-person group.
You bring what’s actually happening in your life, and we work with it directly.
Not advice.
Not surface-level conversation.
Your life works in a lot of ways.
But there’s a place where you keep losing clarity, connection, or direction.
You’ve already done some work.
You’re not looking for more insight.
You’re ready to face the pattern directly.
Real conversations.
Real pressure.
Real feedback.
You’ll bring in what’s happening in your life and work with it live.
At times you’ll be challenged.
At times deeply supported.
You’ll be called forward in the places where you normally avoid, shut down, perform, or lose yourself.
Step into your grounded, connected Self
Format: Weekly in-person sessions
When: Thursday evenings, 6–8pm
Begins: Late August
Location: Boulder
Size: 6–8 men
Enrolling now
Reuvain has a rare ability to see what’s really going on and bring people back to what matters.
In couples, men’s work, and groups, he creates real movement — not just insight.
Jayson Gaddis
Host of The Smart Couple Podcast, Founder – The Relationship School™
Reuvain is one of the most skilled and gifted therapists and coaches I’ve known.
He has a laser-like focus and gets quickly to what’s actually driving the issue.
If you’re serious about doing real work, he’s someone you want in your corner.
Michael Vladeck
Family Coach and Counselor — Conscious Parenting In The Digital Age
Reuvain has supported me for over 20 years — including through some of the hardest periods in my marriage.
He doesn’t avoid what’s difficult. He helps you face it and work through it.
The result is real change in how you show up and how the relationship works.
Dr. Will Van Derveer, MD
Psychiatrist and Co-Founder of Integrative Psychiatric Institute, Boulder, CO
Reuvain brings a rare combination of real support and real challenge.
He sees where you’re holding back and calls you out of it — without losing connection.
That’s what actually creates change.
Dr. Pierre Brunschwig
Physician and Founder — Helios Integrated Medicine, Boulder, CO
Reuvain creates a level of trust that makes it possible to go into what’s actually difficult.
I’ve brought some of the hardest parts of my relationship to him and felt supported staying with it.
That’s what made real change possible.
Marco Chung-Shu La
Clinic Director and Acupuncturist, Mandala Integrative Medicine Clinic
The individual and group work that I have done with Reuvain has been an extraordinary and central part of my personal growth.
Rabbi Marc Soloway
Congregation Bonei Shalom, Boulder, CO