Transform struggle into a sense of peace and clear, centered action. Evolutionary guidance and coaching for couples, men, and individuals.
When things get hard, most of us either fight reality or shut down. There’s a third way: meet what is. Relax the struggle with what’s happening so you can see clearly and act skillfully in love, work, health, and purpose.
Honor and respect every experience that you have. Treat what’s happening as the curriculum for your growth. Learn from them.
I help you return to center, end unnecessary suffering, and move with clear, effective action.
Peace doesn’t come when life finally lines up. It comes when you stop needing it to. Meet life as it is, then choose action from center rather than from the urge to make things different so you can feel okay inside.
Here you’ll learn practical tools that turn stress into clarity, resistance into freedom, and challenge into evolutionary growth.
Challenges aren’t just obstacles; they’re doorways.
“Reuvain is an extremely gifted facilitator of transformation and personal evolution.”
— Jayson Gaddis, Host of The Smart Couple Podcast, Founder – The Relationship School™
“One of the most skilled and deeply gifted therapists and coaches I have ever known.”
— Michael Vladeck, Personal Coach and Counselor
Meet Reuvain
I help people relax resistance, suffer less, live happier lives, and act from center. For more than two decades I’ve coached couples, men, and individuals through rough terrain—turning stress into clarity and challenge into growth and ease.
My method combines somatic therapy, evolutionary coaching, and attachment-grounded relationship skills. The work is deep, direct, and practical. We treat life as the curriculum, then translate insight into potent action that creates what you truly want.
Find Your Next Step
Turn life’s challenges into catalysts for growth, peace, and connection.
Transform conflict. Build the safety that love needs to thrive.
Deepen as a man. Walk with evolutionary brotherhood.
Grow with a committed circle that supports your strength and clarity.
The Work: From Struggle to Evolution
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Clarity & Focus — Illuminate the patterns that hold you back so you can move with confidence, direction, and purpose.
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Embodied Presence — Relax resistance, root in your body, and meet life with steadiness and awareness.
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Connection & Relationship — Deepen intimacy, repair conflict, and strengthen the bonds that bring meaning.
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Conscious Freedom — Cultivate awareness that transforms struggle into peace, wholeness, and authentic action.
How Transformation Happens
This work blends deep insight with embodied practice so change isn’t just an idea — it’s lived. Together, we:
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See and shift patterns that keep you stuck in the same struggles.
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Embody acceptance, ease and resilience so challenge becomes a doorway, not a roadblock
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Train your nervous system to return to steadiness, clarity, and choice.
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Learn to sooth and repair in relationships with embodied tools that create trust and connection.
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Align values with action so your life reflects what matters most.
Are You Ready To Step Into Your Evolution?
Whether you’re in a hard season, navigating conflict, or seeking purpose, this work helps you release what blocks you and step into more freedom, connection, and peace.
What people are saying…
Reuvain is an extremely gifted facilitator of transformation and personal evolution. His skills with couples, men and groups are outrageous. The guy has a pulse on everything. Not only that, Reuvain’s ability to connect people toward a common purpose is visionary.
Jayson Gaddis — Host of The Smart Couple Podcast, Founder – The Relationship School™
Reuvain Bacal’s deeply cultivated skills, natural gifts and the enormous amount of personal work he has done on himself are evident when you meet him; and without hesitation I can attest that he is one of the most skilled and deeply gifted therapists and coaches that I have ever known. He has a laser-like focus…quickly getting to the hidden trigger point of an issue. If you need support on your journey of unfolding, healing and learning, you would be truly blessed to have him as your guide.
Michael Vladeck
Family Coach and Counselor — Conscious Parenting In The Digital Age
Reuvain Bacal has supported me over the past 20 years through some of the darkest hours of my marriage, and has been there to celebrate the harvest I’ve reaped from working through some of the hardest parts of my personality. Reuvain is a truly gifted healer, a powerhouse of relationship change. If you are ready for growth and change in relationship, Reuvain is the man to facilitate your transition.
Dr. Will Van Derveer, MD — Psychiatrist and Co-Founder of Integrative Psychiatric Institute, Boulder, CO
Reuvain Bacal is a pioneer with a fresh vision of men in their fullness. His unique presence provides men with a deep experience of both loving support and edgy challenge. He calls us out of our roles that no longer serve us and into our spiritual awakening.
Dr. Pierre Brunschwig — Physician and Founder — Helios Integrated Medicine, Boulder, CO
Reuvain has an incredible presence that creates a space to delve into deep interior work. I have found myself trusting Reuvain with the deepest challenges I have faced in my intimate relationship and have found support for acknowledging my own shadow. Reuvain’s willingness to embrace his own vulnerability allows for a beautiful sense of safety that I have great appreciation for.
Marco Chung-Shu Lam — Clinic Director and Acupuncturist, Mandala Integrative Medicine Clinic
The individual and group work that I have done with Reuvain has been an extraordinary and central part of my personal growth.
Rabbi Marc Solowayn — Congregation Bonei Shalom, Boulder, CO
I went to Reuvain simply because he’s one of the best at helping men navigate challenging life-terrain. His blend of sensitivity, perception and presence are unique. He’s had a profound impact on me.
Tripp Lanier — Host, The New Man Podcast
Reuvain Bacal is an exceptionally gifted and talented professional. You’ll experience him as warm yet fierce and skillfully to the point…you will recognize him as someone you can trust, a premier counselor who comes from the heart. I consider myself deeply fortunate to have the opportunity to work with him. I couldn’t recommend anyone more highly.
Marc David — Author, Founder & Director of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating
Reuvain is a remarkably skilled men’s coach. He masterfully pinpoints exactly where men are stuck and holding back, and then warmly yet fiercely works just the right spot to open men up to more possibility, to living more fully and powerfully. I highly recommend Reuvain to any man wanting to take his life to the next level.
Bryan Bayer — CEO, Authentic Man Program
Walking out of our first session together, I felt tangibly different. Rather than a collection of body parts, emotional surges and fragmented thoughts, my experience was one of wholeness. Grounded, present, substantial. Your embodiment of both deep vulnerability and trustworthy strength continues to inspire me in our sessions, serving as a beacon toward my own ongoing integration. I am so grateful!
Bryce Widom — Guide and Artist, Boulder, CO
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