Handle your relationship and your life more clearly.
Build something that holds strong.
Why men come into this
A lot in your life works. You’ve built things, handled pressure, shown up for people who rely on you.
But somewhere, the old way isn’t cutting it anymore.
Usually it shows up in the relationship first. The same tension. The same shutdown. The same conversations ending the same way, and nothing actually changing.
Sometimes it’s bigger — a divorce, a major transition, a decision you’ve been circling for too long. A growing sense of isolation you can’t quite name.
And underneath most of it, when you look honestly: when pressure hits, you lose connection. With yourself, with the people you love, with what actually matters to you.
At some point, life stops letting you avoid that.
That’s usually when men come into this work.
What’s actually happening
It happens fast.
Something gets said. Something feels threatened. And before you’ve registered what’s happening, you’re already inside the reaction — body tight, thinking narrowed, doing what you always do.
Most men don’t catch the moment where it turns. Not because they’re weak. Because it moves faster than awareness does, until you train yourself to see it.
And if you can’t stay present there, life keeps bringing you back to the same place.
How this works
This is a small, in-person group. No posturing, no talking in circles, no hiding behind insight.
You bring in what’s actually happening — the relationship tension, the avoidance, the conversation you keep not having, the places where you go quiet or go hard under pressure.
And we work there. In real time.
Other men will see things you can’t see in yourself. And you’ll see yourself in them — the way they react, the way they disconnect, the way they come back. That’s not incidental. Most men can’t see themselves clearly alone. The group makes it visible.
There’s direct feedback, real accountability, and relationship that actually means something.
Over time, something deeper starts shifting — at home, in conflict, in the decisions you make, in the things you stop avoiding.
What becomes possible
You start catching it sooner. Sometimes right in the middle of it.
You don’t get pulled under as automatically. Conversations stop ending the same way. You stop abandoning what matters.
Decisions get clearer. Your relationships become more real. And you start feeling more solid underneath your own life — not because things get easier, but because you stop losing yourself as fast when they get hard.
Why this is most of a year
The old way is practiced. It took years to wire in.
A different way of meeting life — staying present under pressure, in conflict, in uncertainty — has to become just as practiced. That takes repetition, over time, until presence starts to feel more natural than reactivity.
That’s why we have 9 months together.
The Tribe helped me go from burnt out and disconnected to present, healthy, and deeply connected — as a husband, father, and business leader.
— Dylan, Longmont / CEO, global technical services business
Who this is for
Most of your life works. But something in your relationship isn’t, or life keeps bringing you back to the same unresolved place.
You’re ready to look honestly at yourself, take responsibility for how you show up, and stay present long enough for something real to change.
This isn’t for men who want quick insight without real change, need to stay defended, or disappear the moment things get uncomfortable.
Format and Logistics
What:
Weekly sessions: In—person 2-hour sessions (Boulder).
Retreats: 3 in-person weekend intensives
Private coaching with Reuvain: Monthly 1:1 coaching sessions.
Coaching partners: Meet weekly with a coaching partner from the group.
Duration:
9 months
When:
Next cohort begins late September
Wednesday evenings 6—8pm
Group size:
8 men max
If this fits
What men say about the work
Reuvain has a rare ability to see what’s really going on and bring people back to what matters.
In couples, men’s work, and groups, he creates real movement — not just insight.
Jayson Gaddis
Host of The Smart Couple Podcast, Founder – The Relationship School™
Reuvain is one of the most skilled and gifted coaches I’ve known.
He has a laser-like focus and gets quickly to what’s actually driving the issue.
If you’re serious about doing real work, he’s someone you want in your corner.
Michael Vladeck
Family Coach and Counselor — Conscious Parenting In The Digital Age
Reuvain has supported me for over 20 years — including through some of the hardest periods in my marriage.
He doesn’t avoid what’s difficult. He helps you face it and work through it.
The result is real change in how you show up and how the relationship works.
Dr. Will Van Derveer, MD
Psychiatrist and Co-Founder of Integrative Psychiatric Institute, Boulder, CO
Reuvain brings a rare combination of real support and real challenge.
He sees where you’re holding back and calls you out of it — without losing connection.
That’s what actually creates change.
Dr. Pierre Brunschwig
Physician and Founder — Helios Integrated Medicine, Boulder, CO
Reuvain creates a level of trust that makes it possible to go into what’s actually difficult.
I’ve brought some of the hardest parts of my relationship to him and felt supported staying with it.
That’s what made real change possible.
Marco Chung-Shu La
Clinic Director and Acupuncturist, Mandala Integrative Medicine Clinic
The individual and group work that I have done with Reuvain has been an extraordinary and central part of my personal growth.
Rabbi Marc Soloway
Congregation Bonei Shalom, Boulder, CO
REFUND POLICY
All sales are final and non-refundable. Failure to use the group does not constitute a basis for refusing to pay any of the associated charges.