This isn’t a getaway.
You’re not coming up here to relax and go back the same.
It’s a few days away from your normal environment, with a small group of men, focused on what’s actually not working.
No distractions.
You’re not juggling work, home, everything else.
There’s space to look at it directly.
Hard seasons are the path—if you meet them well.
We work with what’s real for you.
Your relationship.
The situation you’re in.
The thing you’ve been putting off or avoiding.
You won’t be able to stay in the same patterns as easily.
That’s part of the point.
There’s room for it.
But there’s also pressure — enough that something actually moves.
You leave with clarity you didn’t have before.
Not from thinking about it more.
From actually facing it.
Something shifts in how you meet what’s in front of you.
For some men, that shows up immediately in their relationship.
For others, it’s in decisions they’ve been stuck on.
Either way, it’s not just something you’re thinking about anymore.
Something is already in motion.
I was skeptical going in.
But this went way beyond what I expected.It helped me shift things I hadn’t been able to change on my own—especially in how I show up under pressure.
I left clearer, more grounded, and actually following through on what I came for.
Wade G, Boulder
This is for men who can feel they’re at a point.
Something in your relationship isn’t working.
Or there’s something in your life you’ve been circling.
You don’t need a long explanation.
You already know.
You’re not stuck across the board. It’s more specific than that.
Most of the men who come to this have a lot handled.
Work is solid. Life mostly works on the outside.
This is the part that hasn’t.
This is not for you if:
Reuvain Bacal
Bryce Widom
https://brycewidom.com/about
This retreat is a focused, small-group experience.
Men’s Threshold retreat in Winter Park
June 26-28
Spots limited to 10 men
Based on sleeping preference.
You’re working directly, in real time, in a group of maximum 10 men. Including group medicine session.
This isn’t a large workshop or a passive experience.
Click below to apply for the retreat
Reuvain has a rare ability to see what’s really going on and bring people back to what matters.
In couples, men’s work, and groups, he creates real movement — not just insight.
Jayson Gaddis
Host of The Smart Couple Podcast, Founder – The Relationship School™
Reuvain is one of the most skilled and gifted therapists and coaches I’ve known.
He has a laser-like focus and gets quickly to what’s actually driving the issue.
If you’re serious about doing real work, he’s someone you want in your corner.
Michael Vladeck
Family Coach and Counselor — Conscious Parenting In The Digital Age
Reuvain has supported me for over 20 years — including through some of the hardest periods in my marriage.
He doesn’t avoid what’s difficult. He helps you face it and work through it.
The result is real change in how you show up and how the relationship works.
Dr. Will Van Derveer, MD
Psychiatrist and Co-Founder of Integrative Psychiatric Institute, Boulder, CO
Reuvain brings a rare combination of real support and real challenge.
He sees where you’re holding back and calls you out of it — without losing connection.
That’s what actually creates change.
Dr. Pierre Brunschwig
Physician and Founder — Helios Integrated Medicine, Boulder, CO
Reuvain creates a level of trust that makes it possible to go into what’s actually difficult.
I’ve brought some of the hardest parts of my relationship to him and felt supported staying with it.
That’s what made real change possible.
Marco Chung-Shu La
Clinic Director and Acupuncturist, Mandala Integrative Medicine Clinic
The individual and group work that I have done with Reuvain has been an extraordinary and central part of my personal growth.
Rabbi Marc Soloway
Congregation Bonei Shalom, Boulder, CO