Men’s Groups – Reuvain Bacal

Evolutionary man group Something‘s off, and you’ve been alone with it.
Get honest with men who will challenge you, support you, and help you move forward.

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What’s actually happening

Most men can handle a lot. Work, responsibility, pressure — that’s not the issue.

But in certain moments, something takes over. You don’t respond the way you want to. The same tension keeps coming back in the relationship. You feel stuck, disconnected, unclear where you’re headed. You handle what’s in front of you — but nothing really moves.

It’s not the situation that’s the problem. The thing creating it is still running underneath.

The reaction. The tightening. The way you lose yourself a little once pressure hits.

What we work with

Most approaches stay focused on the situation — the argument, the decision, whatever’s right in front of you. We work with what’s underneath it. The values, beliefs, self-regulation skills, purpose that determine your life.

So instead of going unconscious and doing what you always do, you start catching it sooner. You stay in the room. You stay connected. You respond with more clarity.

Over time, that changes things. Not because you figured yourself out intellectually — because you stopped leaving the moment things got difficult. You moved through to the other side.

Why a group

You can hide from yourself for a long time one-on-one. Not as easily in a room full of men.

You get held accountable. Learn new behaviors. Other people see things you don’t. Patterns become obvious faster. The way you affect people becomes visible in real time.

And once you can actually see it, you can work with it.

Who this is for

Your life works in a lot of ways. But there’s a place where you keep losing clarity, connection, or direction.

You’ve already done some work. You’re ready to face things directly and get held accountable to take action.

What to expect

Real conversations. Real pressure. Real feedback.

You bring what’s actually happening in your life and work with it live — not advice, not surface-level talk. At times you’ll be challenged. At times deeply supported. You’ll be called forward in the places where you normally avoid, shut down, perform, or lose yourself. You’ll learn new skills and be held accountable to new behavior that makes your life go better.

Logistics

Duration: 8 weeks

Format: Weekly in-person sessions
When: Thursday evenings, 6-8pm
Begins: November 5 (Won’t meet on the holidays)
Location: Boulder
Size: 5-8 men

Tuition: $1,200

2 lower-tuition spots offered based on need. Inquire.

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What men say about the work

Reuvain has a rare ability to see what’s really going on and bring people back to what matters.

In couples, men’s work, and groups, he creates real movement — not just insight.

Jayson Gaddis

Host of The Smart Couple Podcast, Founder – The Relationship School™

Reuvain is one of the most skilled and gifted coaches I’ve known.

He has a laser-like focus and gets quickly to what’s actually driving the issue.

If you’re serious about doing real work, he’s someone you want in your corner.

Michael Vladeck
Family Coach and Counselor — Conscious Parenting In The Digital Age

Reuvain has supported me for over 20 years — including through some of the hardest periods in my marriage.

He doesn’t avoid what’s difficult. He helps you face it and work through it.

The result is real change in how you show up and how the relationship works.

Dr. Will Van Derveer, MD

Psychiatrist and Co-Founder of Integrative Psychiatric Institute, Boulder, CO

Reuvain brings a rare combination of real support and real challenge.

He sees where you’re holding back and calls you out of it — without losing connection.

That’s what actually creates change.

Dr. Pierre Brunschwig

Physician and Founder — Helios Integrated Medicine, Boulder, CO

Reuvain creates a level of trust that makes it possible to get to the other side of what’s actually difficult.

I’ve brought some of the hardest parts of my relationship to him and felt supported moving through to where I wanted to go.

That’s what made real change possible.

Marco Chung-Shu Lam

Clinic Director and Acupuncturist, Mandala Integrative Medicine Clinic

The individual and group work that I have done with Reuvain has been an extraordinary and central part of my personal growth.

Rabbi Marc Soloway

Congregation Bonei Shalom, Boulder, CO