Transforming your limiting habitual emotional patterns into enlivening relationships and personal evolution.

Working together, you'll learn to apply state of the art methods for reconnecting to aliveness and growth in your relationship and in yourself.

BENEFITS:

• Shift from a relationship that feels stuck to one that is dynamic and passionate.
• Neutralize long-standing conflict.
• Remove your obstacles to commitment.
• Unlock your heart, humor, playfulness.
• Discover how to be happy and at peace in your imperfect relationship.
• Utilize the pain in your relationship as a path of growth and evolution.

Relationships have the potential to be powerful vehicles for growth.

We may not realize it, but most of us expect our relationships to provide and maintain our happiness and comfort. But we end up running into problems, coming face to face with the most painful parts of ourselves that have long been denied. When relationship hurts, we (consciously or unconsciously) tend to blame our partner for making us suffer, or we make ourselves wrong, or both. We get stuck in either defensive aggression or in self-loathing. In both cases we're resisting actually engaging with the raw energy of our pain. Fortunately, there is a profoundly effective, direct, and learnable way to unlock and enliven our stuck relationships.

Using a penetrating method that engages our body, beliefs, and behavior, we can reach directly to the heart of our unwanted relationship patterns. We can learn to harness the energy bound up within our unhealthy dynamics to fuel our vitality, activate our power to change our lives, and deeply root us to the experience of freedom and peace. We find and live essential parts of ourselves. We and our relationships come alive in new and surprising ways, finding the strength, freedom, and joy that had been buried. We can learn to embrace what we've turned away from in ourselves in order to reclaim the whole of who we are. We rediscover how to live with a new sense of vitality, peace, and freedom to choose new relationship possibilities.

What Couples Are Saying

"I have been married for 12 years. Reuvain Bacal has supported me over the past 10 years through some of the darkest hours of my marriage, and has been there to celebrate with me the harvest I've reaped from working through some of the hardest parts of my personality. Reuvain is a truly gifted healer, a powerhouse of relationship change. If you are ready for growth and change in relationship, Reuvain is the man to facilitate your transition."

~ Dr. Will Vanderveer, MD - Psychiatrist, Integrative Psychiatric Healing Center, Boulder, CO

"...Reuvain's work with couples is unique in that he helps each person break through their fears and barriers in a gentle yet direct way, and invites them into higher levels of thinking and being. I would recommend Reuvain to anyone looking to have a higher relationship with themselves or their partner."

~ Alyson Schwabe, LPC, PC - Therapist and Coach, Boulder, CO

"Reuvain has an incredible presence that creates a space to delve into deep interior work. I have found myself trusting Reuvain with the deepest challenges I have faced in my intimate relationship and have found support for acknowledging my own shadow. Reuvain's willingness to embrace his own vulnerability allows for a beautiful sense of safety that I have great appreciation for."

~ Marco Chung-Shu Lam - Clinic Director and Acupuncturist, Mandala Integrative Medicine Clinic

"Reuvain has an unusual ability to understand a dynamic without spending a lot of time up-front to get to know the particulars of a situation. In only two sessions, he guided my partner and me to identify blocks, reveal weaknesses, share openly what we wanted for ourselves and our relationship, and walk out of his office more in love--and in hope!--than we had been before. Reuvain is extraordinarily intuitive and sensitive, and able to quickly pierce to the heart of a couple's dynamic; he pushes the "story" aside and zeroes in on the reality. I recommend him without reserve to people wanting to improve their relationship and get to the core of what matters to them as individuals and as a couple."

~ Linda Williams - Writer, Boulder CO

"I have utilized Reuvain’s relationship support many times over the past 10 years. His expertise with relationship challenges is demonstrated clearly in his therapeutic style. With utmost skill and compassion, Reuvain gently brings my awareness to the core of the issues that most need attention. He has been able to guide me to deep places within myself that more often than not have led to significant breakthroughs. My sessions with Reuvain have helped me to grow in a way that allows for healthier relationships in my life."

~ Laurence Spiewak - General Manager, Pangea Organics, Boulder, CO