Igniting Men's Evolution.
Turning Relationship Challenges into Evolutionary Opportunities.
I'm here to guide highly motivated men eager to create thriving relationships and awaken power, clarity, passion and purpose. And, to help couples turn your relationship challenges into evolutionary opportunities and satisfying loving.
I specialize in quick, clear, incisive pinpointing of the core organizing and limiting principles that are running your personality and relationships, so you get to the bottom of things right away. You quickly come to understand the evolutionary opportunities presented by your relationship and life challenges, and get clear guidance for how to apply proven methods to work with them effectively. You get equipped with the understanding, practices and tools you need to turn pain and conflict into wakeful, empowered ways of being, relating and doing.
I guide people in relationships to transmute the emotional and mental patterns that lead to disconnection and aggression, and that cause your loving relationships to become stagnant and burdened with resentment and conflict. What results is more emotional flexibility and new possibilities for how to connect with your partner and yourself. You discover how to experience relationships and life as more fulfilling, satisfying and alive.
When you face directly and embrace the challenges of relationship and life, you rediscover inherent, lost qualities of wholeness, vitality and freedom that have gotten covered over by old fear-based coping strategies. You come to find energy to fuel meaningful change. In this way, relationship becomes a path, a movement toward self-discovery, freedom and awakening.
What People Are Saying
“Reuvain Bacal is an exceptionally gifted and talented professional. You’ll experience him as warm yet fierce and skillfully to the point...you will recognize him as someone you can trust, a premier counselor who comes from the heart. I consider myself deeply fortunate to have the opportunity to work with him. I couldn’t recommend anyone more highly.”
~ Marc David – Author, Founder & Director of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating
"Reuvain's work is unlike any other therapist or coach I've experienced. I've never felt so transparent sitting across from someone before or so held in compassion. In one session, I got very clear on the core issues that are keeping me stuck in life and causing me pain...I now have valuable practices to work with...the life I want now seems within reach. I'm extremely grateful to have worked with him..."
~ Lara Irwin - Dating and Relationship Coach, Boulder, CO
"...Reuvain Bacal's deeply cultivated skills, natural gifts, and the enormous amount of personal work he has done on himself is evident when you meet him; and without hesitation I can attest that he is one of the most skilled and deeply gifted therapists and coaches that I have ever known. He has a laser-like focus...quickly getting to the hidden trigger point of an issue. If you need support on your journey of unfolding, healing and learning, you would be truly blessed to have him support you as your guide."
~ Michael Vladeck - Life Coach and Counselor, Boulder, CO
"Reuvain is a highly gifted Body-Centered Psychotherapist and Men's Group leader who embodies living from his heart. He provides a profoundly loving and caring space for true inner growth to occur."
~ Douglas Brady - Psychotherapist, Boulder, CO